Reception Psychologist

2022-05-05 19:00:03 The way we communicate with a child essentially draws a portrait of him or her.

A child's character is usually shaped in the image and likeness of his parents' character. Your child's personality will in future be shaped by what you have imprinted on them (drawn), by the images you have shown them.
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The character of each child is unique, but it also includes things that are common to all members of the family. The completeness and strength of character depend upon the range of experiences and the variety of activities of those close to them.

In a family where children are richly impressed, actively involved in family tasks, living a varied life, they form a rich and active character.

We do not even notice how we are placing more and more strokes on the canvas. We are sending signals to our child almost always on a subconscious level. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-05-05 17:00:03 We often say that a man is judged by his deeds, but we sometimes forget that words are also deeds. A man's speech is a mirror of himself.

Everything false, deceitful or vulgar, no matter how one tries to hide it from others, all emptiness, callousness or rudeness burst out in his speech with as much force and obviousness as sincerity and nobility, depth and subtlety of thoughts and feelings are manifested.

We often say that a man is judged by his deeds, but we sometimes forget that words are also deeds. A man's speech is a mirror of himself.

Everything false, deceitful or vulgar, no matter how one tries to hide it from others, all emptiness, callousness or rudeness burst out in his speech with as much force and obviousness as sincerity and nobility, depth and subtlety of thoughts and feelings are manifested.

What a man says reflects his inner world Открыть/Комментировать

2022-05-04 19:00:03 5 rules for inner harmony

It is important to experience as many positive emotions as possible: to be constantly surprised, to smile, to see the pluses in everything.

One must not be lazy and keep busy: work, leisure activities, hobbies.

You should have a lot of interpersonal relations. You should meet your friends and relatives more often, correspond in social networks and make new acquaintances.

You must understand why you live and do what you do. Everything has to make sense.

There must be a way to complete everything you start, a person must have as few unfinished business as possible. It is not easy, but it is doable. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-05-04 17:00:02 "Letter of gratitude"

Gratitude is a great power. It helps both the person who gives thanks and the person being thanked.

A surprising fact is that when organ transplant people feel gratitude for their donors, they recover more quickly. For everyone else, grateful thoughts boost immunity and lower blood pressure. And they induce feelings of contentment and happiness.

Write a letter of gratitude to someone close to you. You can choose a mentor, a celebrity, a philosopher, a scientist - anyone who has had a strong influence on you. You can then read the letter out loud or mail it to the recipient. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-05-03 19:00:04 How to improve your performance?

Yes, these ways are quite simple and obvious, but you have to pay attention to them.

Get a good night's sleep
Forget staying up late in front of the computer or watching TV. Go to bed no later than 11pm, and in a couple of weeks you'll notice the difference. You'll get more done, and you won't feel so chronically tired.

Visualizing your goals
Visualising your goals will help you get your priorities right, helping to increase your desire to achieve your goals. When you have a clear vision of the outcome. You choose the right methods to achieve them.

Acquiring new knowledge.
New knowledge and skills help you to fulfil yourself and broaden your horizons. Enroll in interesting courses and learn something new. It would be great if your new skills could be applied in your profession. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-05-03 17:00:02 How can you know if you are being cheated?

Too many details
A liar doesn't like long pauses in conversation, so he tries to fill them with words. And the details just serve as a great way to fill the void.

Repetition is the mother of... Lies.
It is likely that this lie is improvised, as repetition is necessary for the liar to think through what to say next.

Covering the mouth, lips and body parts
Liars may cover their mouth, touching their lips when delivering an untruth. This indicates a subconscious desire to stop communication. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-05-03 13:00:14 Separation happens through anger. And this is normal.

Separation is a process of psycho-emotional separation, usually between parents and children.

Anger in such a case is just the tip of the iceberg, beyond which there are many feelings without which separation will not happen.

Until we come to accept the parents as they are, separation will not happen. That is why it is so important to live all the feelings. And there are many of them and they are not always pleasant.

When emotional separation happens, we have a boundary. We understand where things are mine and where they are not and we stop reacting so heavily to our parents' messages.

All that mum could give - she has given. We can take it from here.

Accepting means accepting reality. To see that parents are ordinary people with their own strengths and weaknesses.

Take responsibility for it and now give it to ourselves. It is a pity that some people have not done this even as adults. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-05-03 12:01:45 Finally, a decent news channel has opened on Telegram.

1) Only the main news of the day.

2) Only what will be of interest to you.

The truth and only the truth - Mass-Media News Открыть/Комментировать

2022-05-02 19:00:03 Stop avoiding help from others

Your desire to appear strong and independent plays tricks on you. When you refuse help from others, you only make life harder for yourself.

Stop believing that strength is necessarily about the ability to always solve your problems alone.

We live in a society, we build trusting relationships with people precisely because it is much safer and easier to move forward together.

Don't say no if someone offers you their help and learn to ask for it when you are in a tight spot. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-05-02 17:00:02 False inference of fairness

We get offended when we think we've been treated unfairly, but those around us may have a different point of view on the matter.

Remember as a child when things didn't go our way, the adults would say, "Life isn't always fair".

Those of us who judge every situation 'fair' often end up feeling bad about ourselves. Because life can be "unfair" - not everything is always in our favour, no matter how much we want it to be. Открыть/Комментировать