Men's club

2022-12-22 13:17:19 Is it possible and necessary to manage a woman?

Many men believe that managing a woman in a relationship is not only necessary, but also very easy.

And in this they are categorically mistaken. Manage a woman is often more difficult than an aircraft carrier or an intergalactic cruiser.

You can learn this invaluable skill only by a lot of trial and error with dozens of different women. The more of them - the more experience. And you should not be afraid of negative experience. It sounds paradoxical, but it is often more practical benefits.

Stepping on rakes is also a self-development tool, you know

However, the question of whether you need to manage a woman is quite ambiguous.

Someone on the contrary, wants his partner to be an independent mature person. It is more interesting to live with such, they are easier to love.

However, experience comes in handy here, too. Before you find one that will not confuse independence with bitchiness, and a healthy relationship with freedom, you will have to try a lot. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-12-22 13:16:38 How to get rid of unrequited love?

Don't spit and think that we are such serious people here, and Black Fox is talking about some snotty teenagers' stories.

There are not many questions, it happens more often on young people, but when unrequited love catches up in adult life, its consequences are often very sad.

Immediately it is important to understand one thesis: the only way to solve such a problem is to forget the person and get rid of feelings for him, no option with peace, love and "died in one day" here will not happen.

It's easy to make recommendations, it's harder to follow them, but it's still better with them than without them:

Stop exalting feelings. Realize (not just read it, but literally chew on this thought) that love is just a chemical process triggered by a unique combination of dopamine, oxytocin, endorphin and serotonin. That's it. No magic at all. In fact, it's a drug: when the person is around you, you get a dose, when you're not, you go into withdrawal. When you stop deifying falling in love, it's much easier to get rid of it.

If we continue from a natural point of view, your main task is to find new sources of replenishment of your depleted unrequited love biochemical state. And first of all look for them in other people. Do not close yourself off: as much as possible socializing with friends, new acquaintances, intrigue, sex, sex and sex again. Different and with different people. This will help.

Don't dive headfirst into work, if it doesn't bring pleasure, it will only make you go even deeper. But it makes sense to devote time to hobbies, travel and absolutely everything that you like and at the same time is not harmful.

Many give in to the impulse and try to stifle unrequited feelings with endless reflection, overexertion, alcohol, or even worse. There is little sense in this: only joy and positivity will help. And where to get them you generally know Открыть/Комментировать

2022-12-22 13:15:21 Let's talk about freedom in relationships

How often have you encountered (or at least heard from others) that your freedom is a desirable prey for many girls?

Go fishing with men? You can't. You have to go to your mom's (mother-in-law's) house.
Spend a quiet evening and relax? No, you do not pay enough attention to me.
Communicate with friends? You can not, and better even from his friends delete.

Of course, all this is hiding under a mask of good intentions in the form of love, jealousy, caring, and all the "all good against all bad.

But in reality, all such steps - nothing more than a manifestation of a sense of possessiveness caused by insecurity girl that she is too good for you.

After all, if you are deprived of your freedom, it means that you will be under control, and you can not get away from her.

Of course, you can't fall for it. Neither can you look for compromises and choose half-measures as solutions. The only correct option is to cut off the shoulder.

If she even slightly tries to limit your freedom and control you - nip it in the bud. Didn't get it the first time - end these relations, there is absolutely nothing to look for.

You can give your partner gifts, money, love, care, good sex, but freedom... ...you can't give her freedom. This invisible matter must always remain your unconditional property. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-12-19 21:38:10 What's wrong with Tinder?

The ads work so well that people open such apps on the fly, even when they want a girl for a one-night stand, even when their hearts are asking for a serious relationship.

Now think about it and remember what you know more: tinder dating stories with a good ending or stories that start with the words "I won't go into that hat again"?

And now we'll do some magic and read your thoughts: you have met the second option more often.

There's a maximally consistent trend right now where dating apps have become the most extensive receptacle of all human garbage:

Fraudsters who want to bilk you for dough
Young girls screwing on a few extra years
Photoshop masters who don't live up to their online image
Women who believe they are exceptional.

And that's only 1% of these categories. Normal girls just do not go there, because they know that the regular users of such applications among men are not less specific. Открыть/Комментировать

2022-12-19 21:33:49 Selfishness

Public opinion says that selfishness is exceptionally evil.

Like other societal attitudes, this one is designed to make you comfortable for society and the state. After all, there is nothing better for the state machine than a person who is self-involved, but is constantly thinking about the ALL-OVERAL GOOD.

Of course, the common good is good, but you are the only one at your mother's That's why, a healthy portion of selfishness has never stopped anyone, and even the opposite.

To be able to say "no", to put your own interests above the interests of others, to direct all resources to yourself first of all.

It sounds very logical, and everyone deeply understands that this is the best way, but they are often afraid to admit it.

Also, girls love selfish people. They get mad at selfish people, but they keep loving them, no matter what they say. Don't try to find logic in this, there just isn't any.

Accept this fact, proven many times by psychology and life experience and... live for yourself Открыть/Комментировать