What does jealousy mean? Many people think that jealousy
is the best proof of love . We seem to show that we care about our partner, that we are afraid of losing them. On the other hand, we feel that our partner's love is a prize to compete with the rest of the world for.
If we relegate jealousy as the main indicator of feelings, we are committing a substitution.
Love, in which we are totally absorbed by the other person, becomes an addiction.
Trying to attach to him or her is a consequence of a deep sense of insecurity. If we claim all the attention of the other, it may indicate that we failed to form a sense of wholeness, of self-sufficiency as a child.
Experiencing mild jealousy is natural. But make sure that it does not escalate into control. The more you bind a person to yourself, the more he will actively try to break free.
But if you're seriously convinced that without your control he'll leave you for someone else, ask yourself the question: Do you really want that person around?
