So how do you know if your spouse is using you? It's really | Messy Manipulator
So how do you know if your spouse is using you?
It's really simple.
A man in love invests emotional and financial resources in you.
If the man is just comfortable with you, you are the investor. Only on those terms is this specimen willing to maintain a semblance of a relationship with you. Everyone lives as he wants, and he pays for it himself. Respect yourself and don't settle for less than love.