Test your relationships on mutuality You initiate most communication
You initiate most intimacy
You spend a lot of your time apologizing
You often change your plans to accommodate their schedule
You frequently make excuses for their hurtful behaviors
You are constantly worried they will leave
Their goals have become your goals
Their needs are the focus of the relationship, yours are not
They often prioritize things over you (e.g., work, hobbies)
You consider the relationship when making plans about the future (they don’t)
PSY for everyday
